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Building Trust with Your Therapist
Starting therapy is a brave step toward personal growth and healing. One of the most important parts of this journey is building trust with your psychotherapist. Trust creates a safe space where we can explore our feelings, challenges, and hopes without fear of judgment. When trust is strong, therapy becomes more effective and meaningful. Let’s explore how we can nurture this trust together and make the most of our therapeutic experience. Why Therapist Trust Building Matters
Andrew Lapides
5 days ago3 min read
A Neurodivergent Clinician With CAPD
My work as a psychotherapist is deeply informed by my own lived experience as a neurodivergent individual with Central Auditory Processing Disorder (CAPD), a type of learning disability. Neurodivergence refers to neurologically based differences that affect how people think, process information, communicate, and experience the world. These differences can significantly impact education, relationships, self-esteem, and mental health. CAPD is one such condition, and it has sha
Andrew Lapides
Feb 63 min read
Coping with ADHD- Practical Strategies for Overwhelmed Brains
Living with ADHD means navigating challenges with time management, organization, focus and emotional regulation on a regular basis. It’s not being lazy, a lack of effort or poor motivation; ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition that shapes how your brain is able to process information and the responses you have to the world. Being able to understand what your brain needs is the first step to building coping strategies that work. Here are some of my personal favorites as a f
Alyson O’Neill
Dec 17, 20252 min read
Understanding Seasonal Depression
The days get shorter, the air gets colder, and moods begin to shift. The UV lowers, the sun sets earlier, and everything begins to feel a lot heavier. Many people feel a shift in their energy or mood, but for a number of people, it may be Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) or a seasonal pattern of depression. You may be wondering; what is seasonal depression? This is a type of mood disorder in which depressive episodes can emerge in a regular seasonal pattern. It is most comm
Alyson O’Neill
Oct 27, 20252 min read
Tips on Dealing with College Dilemmas: From a Recent Graduate
College is a transition for everyone; it’s a taste of freedom and a new level of pressure. With the excitement of a new journey come dilemmas we may not know how to handle, such as living in dorms, finding time to study, practicing self-care, and still having a social life. Time management is essential to make space for everything at hand. This could look like blocking out study time on your calendar, engaging with clubs and groups on campus, and protecting your sleep. This a
Alyson O’Neill
Sep 26, 20252 min read
Gestalt Therapy as an Integrative Therapy
Gestalt Therapy is a powerful and effective approach that helps clients gain awareness, heal, and create lasting change. Connect with us. We specialize in working with clients through this approach.
Andrew Lapides
Aug 19, 20253 min read
Relationship Coaching and Couples Therapy
Relationship Coaching and Couples Therapy As a couples therapist, many people come to me today looking for what's often called “relationship coaching.” Those skills genuinely help many couples — but my experience and the research agree on one thing: skills alone aren’t enough. Couples need to understand that it’s taken years to develop the patterns they’re stuck in, and it will take real time before they’re ready to change as individuals. Change in a relationship is usually a
Andrew Lapides
Feb 22, 20253 min read
On Men: Anger, Rage, Trauma, and Growth
As a society, we have largely ignored the mental health needs of men. Many men walk around wounded psychologically without ever realizing it. The Making of Stoicism From a young age, many men are taught to “toughen up” and “be a man.” The old adage that boys don’t cry rings true for most of us. Our fathers modeled being stoic and non-emotional, and used anger to instill fear rather than connection. This taught many of us to lock down our emotions the same way our fathers did,
Andrew Lapides
Jul 22, 20243 min read
Narcissistic Abuse
Something hides in plain sight that most people fail to recognize and are afraid to talk about: relationships with people who cannot see beyond themselves. These are partners, parents, and employers who are cruel, insensitive, or hurtful toward the people closest to them — people who need to be seen as all-powerful, perfect, and all-knowing. They demand to be right, refuse to admit fault, and can’t tolerate the expression of suffering, which they often dismiss as “weakness.”
Andrew Lapides
Jul 18, 20243 min read
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